9 Things We Need To Teach Our Daughters From Childhood
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Maybe there are no words to describe the joy, proud and love when a mother holds her daughter for the first time in her arms after giving birth. Holding that tiny body with tiny hands and feet feels like a part of your self. You can just play all day long with such a cute tiny creature. But unfortunately time doesn't stay there, it goes on and so does the daughter who slowly grows and in just a few years you may have to say goodbye to the tiny bag of cuteness.
You may have heard the quote that "Time flies when you're having fun" and that sure is true , in a blink of an eye your daughter is grown up, she can walk, talk and pretty much can do most of the things herself. But soon daughters will go outside to explore the world, to meet the new people and have new experiences. Surely we can't teach our daughters everything but preparing her moral and ethical codes is one of fundamental responsibilities of a parent, which is why we need to teach her these 9 things before they leave the garden of home...
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Teach Her That She Is Strong just Like Her Mom And Dad
No wonder, children inherit a lot of qualities from their parents both genetically and by observing & copying, But that's not enough you need to convince her and teach her practically that her parents are bold and brave, show her examples of how you handle the situations which might lead someone to loose patience, make her part of the experiences that you think will make her tougher for coming life and keep reminding her that she's strong just like her parents.
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Show Her How To Be Beautiful From The Inside
Wanting to look beautiful is in every girl's nature, so when she wants to look prettier either by wearing stylized clothes, getting a hair cut, using make up on the face don't forget to remind her that the true beauty lies within when you are being kind to others and being humble.
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Teach Her How to Find Honest People And Friends
Being a parent makes you more mature and protective, and of course maturity comes of age. Being an adult you have lived a fair share of your life, have met a lot of people and been through many ups and downs of life. So always keep teaching her about the lessons you have learned from your life about finding honest and real friends so that she might avoid the mishaps that you have faced with other people.
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Teach Her To Keep Learning
No doubt education is an absolute necessity, no matter where life takes you education is must. So keep you daughter encouraged to pursue her education and tell her how important it is to be educated and to know things. Make her part of the academic programs that you think might be beneficial to her, both mentally and socially.
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Teach Her To Believe In Herself
A high self esteem and a powerful confidence is the greatest gift a mother can give to her daughter. But as good as it sounds it may well be very difficult to build in a child. To build such valuable qualities in her, the easiest way is through yourself. A mother is the first role model for her daughter, if you show a high level confidence in yourself and show her that sometimes in life when you just can't decide follow your heart and believe in yourself so that she starts believing in herself.
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Teach Her That Her Family Is Always Besides Her No Matter What
Hard times are part of this life and sometimes even the strongest person breaks down and the only thing that can bring back the person is family. Same goes with your daughter, teach her that no matter what life brings to her, her mother, father, brothers and sisters will always be there for her, when she needs them the most, and show her that she can trust them always no matter what.
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Teach Her To Believe In God
Believing in God will not just give her a purpose of life, It will make her more disciplined, will give her inner peace and satisfaction. Teach her to pray to God whenever she wants something that way she will be more connected to herself, develop empathy and able to serve others well which will give both her and mother inner joy and peace of mind.
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Teach Her To Value Her Family
Having a family is one of the great blessings of God. But sometimes because of everyday rush, daunting routines, stress and many other issues we forget that we have parents and siblings. So teach her from the start to never leave her family behind and teach the value of these relationships, because family is family as long as we stick together.
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