How to build a stronger bond with your sister

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A sister is a childhood friend with whom we spend a fare share of life. And obviously spending so much time with someone gets you attached to that particular person because of the time you spent together and the created memories. Most of us are lucky enough to have developed strong relationships with our sisters from our childhood. We played together, ran together, dress up together, went to school together used each others makeup kits, protected one another from bullies at school while fought each other at home. No matter it was a crime or fun our sisters were always with us. However, not everyone shares this type of jolly experience. In some cases the sisterhood only lasts for the amount of time we are living together, as soon as we move far from each other's this strength and beauty of this relationship begins to fade and siblings start to drift apart. Every relationships has it's ups and downs, problems and disagreements, similarly the sisters fought each other, argue with each other but that doesn't break the bond of sisters.

Sometimes after a disagreement it seems only natural to argue with your sister or not talk to her at all until you cool off. But sisterhood is stronger then the bond of friendship and no disagreement or quarrel is strong enough to break that bond. And every sister should try to make that bond even stronger so that no matter what the life throws at them they will never be separated.

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Communication

Words are a powerful tool that anyone can use to accomplish somethings otherwise impossible. So talk to your sister, if there is difference of opinion or a disagreement not talking it out is the worst thing you can do, because that way the confusions will remain there and might even add up as the time goes one. And sometimes you do wanna talk to your sister but your ego comes in a way saying "If she doesn't care then I don't care...", this is even worse because you do feel with your sister but hesitate to express. If that's the case do remember that being with your sister is bigger then your ego, so don't hesitate, just dial her number and talk to her, she will listen to you after all she's your sister.

And even if it doesn't about a fight you should try talking to her, chatting with her every now and then, today's technology makes it so much easier. That way sisters can remain in each other's lives and keep bonding with each other just like they used to in their childhood.

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Share With Your Sister

Another way to make the sisterhood bond stronger is by sharing secrets, issues and problems. Because when you share with your sister that makes her feel more important and trustworthy. So keep sharing with your sister and more importantly keep her secrets safe.

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Don Not Judge

Sisters despite of being born from the same mother might not necessarily share the same taste of life. Some sisters can have different habits, different taste of music, different attitude. So sometimes sisters don't understand why we do or say certain things. There are numerous times me and my sister see the same thing entirely differently. Nonetheless, we do not judge. There is no room for judging when you are working on building a stronger bond with your sister.

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Support

Sometimes your sister wants to do something you do not necessarily feel comfortable with because you think differently, but you do know that will make her happy. So try supporting her in any possible way you see fit unless you see that what she wants is utterly wrong. If that's the case don't enforce her, again try talking to her or convince her with words.

Sisters are instantly available friends with whom we can share or discuss very personal choices.With them, we learn the essence of love, friendship face some hard and soft times. But no matter what, we know that our sisters are best friends for life whom we can trust always.